Does your boyfriend have those moments when he feels like crying, and it instantly is obvious to you? The mood can change very quickly and it can ruin the day for you both, and sometimes this mood will stay with you for a longer period of time. That’s why when he is crying you should do all you can to comfort him!
Yes, men do cry from time to time, and we should not laugh about it, because there is almost a guarantee that something bad has happened. And you as his girlfriend or future girlfriend should think about was to comfort him and make him smile again… but how you can do that on your own? It is possible that you can make him even more depressed, and the whole situation even worse, that’s why we would like to give you some tips and tell him things that you should avoid if you don’t want to make him angrier.
Even if you don’t know what was the cause of his bad mood, you definitely can do a lot to cheer him up. Don’t force him to talk to you about this problem if he doesn’t want to. Make sure to spend with him time unless he will tell you to leave. If he will let you stay then we will have to take care of him, but how? Let us explain in detail.
Should I spend time with my boyfriend when he’s angry?
If he is about to cry or just sad then you should definitely try to be with him at that moment because when people are alone they can think about a lot of sad things,that’s why your presence should prevent him from doing something bad what he will regret in the future, like saying something inappropriate or, breaking his phone for example.
Guys do like to destroy things when they are angry because that helps them relieve their emotions and that is one way to lower the level of anger, but a better way would be a punching bag that a man could hit while he is angry.
There is a chance that he will tell you to stay away, and you should accept that fact, but also tell him that if he will feel like talking to you then you will gladlyhear what he has to say.
What to do when my boyfriend is angry?
If you know that your boyfriend will let you spend time with him then you are on the right track to comforting him. So there are things that will let him relieve anger like hitting a punching bag or visiting a gym.
But those things will not require your presence, and even your help so what can you do to make him less angry? You can start with a simple talk. As we all know talking is key to understanding the situation and problem overall. So after hearing what the issue is maybe you will be able to solve it.
Spending time with him will let him forget about problems so maybe invite him for a movie night? Movies are great because they are forcing you to focus on the plot, that way you can’t think about other stuff for at least 2 hours.
To make it even better, bring a blanket and something good to eat because that will distract him even further from his bad thoughts. If you don’;t have any blankets then bring something cozy like pillows or bathrobes which are the perfect outfits for a movie night. Note that women who are wearing bathrobes are considered attractive in men’s eyes.