Being single has a lot of advantages like being independent and totally free, but for a longer period of time, it can make us sad and tired. Some people are happy to spend many years just being alone or doing quick nights with partners but most of us especially girls need a partner in our lives. So if you came to the conclusion that you are tired of being single then you are in the right place because we will tell you what are your options and give you some tips.
If you are tired of being single then you have only two real options, one is that you will look for night partners that will satisfy your desires, but in general, you will live on your own, and the second option is to find a real partner for a long time or even for your whole life. We highly recommend you the second option, because that is what’s right as a human being! If you are wondering how you can find a partner or if it is even a good idea to look for a partner then stay with us!
Is it a good idea to look for a partner?
Most of us who are reading our articles are women, that’s why we will try to focus on this side of the problem. If you are feeling lonely but you are not sure that anyone will even try to talk to you, then you need to know everyone is special and has something interesting in their assets which can be used to attract other people.
There are thousands of potential partners who think about this whole issue almost identical to what you are right now. You are not the only person in the world who is shy and lacks self-confidence.
If you are above your 20s then no one should laugh at you for your efforts in finding a potential partner, so don’t be scared of posting some photos on your Facebook profile, or any other social media.
Even when someone will try to laugh at your efforts, you should focus on your goal and don’t care about people who are laughing at others to make them feel better. Avoid this type of people at any cost, because they are ruining your future just to make them feel better for about 5 seconds, even if in the reality they are not better than you, which they proved by laughing at you.
How can I build up my confidence?
Building confidence is a very slow and hard process, you need to somehow move out of your comfort zone and try to be more confident, but how? Doing things with other people that you didn’t do previously is a great way to build up your confidence. Confident things to do with other people:
- Visiting bars or clubs
- Joining interest clubs (cycling or rollerblading clubs)
- Partying with friends
Those things will automatically force you to be more confident because it will be just required for you to survive those activities. You don’t need to be scared, but those things are the fastest possible ways to build up your confidence. You can also try less drastic things to build up confidence like:
- Chatting online with other people
- Playing games on a voice chat with other people
- Hanging out more with your friends
There are many great ways but focus on those who will force you to spend time with other people. If you want it to be less stressful then think about things that you are good at, things that will able you to impress other people.
Try to remember things that you are good at, maybe some of your skills, for example, things that you have learned while you were younger like singing, dancing, playing an instrument, or anything else that you can show off a bit. Those things can be used to impress others when the right time comes, like for example a wild meeting with friends on camping.
How can I find a partner?
Finding a partner looks like a very hard thing to do, but in 2022 it really is not. There are hundreds of online apps for people to let them meet new people like Tinder for example. Even online things that were not specially designed to let people date witch each other are a great tool to meet someone new, in this case, Twitch is a great example.
The internet can be very powerful when is used with knowledge and caution, it will even give you a boost in confidence because you won’t need to show your face to strangers on some sites, but don’t forget that the internet is full of weird people so be aware what you are doing.
In Summary – I am tired of being a single
Being single for a long period of time is likely going to make you sad because humans are meant to live in pairs in society. There are people who can live on their own, but it is hard so you have to be very mentally strong if you want to choose this way of living. Without all of those people around us, we will feel sometimes an emptiness inside.
Even when you like to live on your own at some point in life you will feel like you need a special person to talk about all of those things inside your mind, to share some experience. If you already feel very sad check out our new article about “How Often Does A Woman Cry? – (Tips To Avoid It)“.