Men tend to pick their friends over their girlfriends when it comes to spending free time, but why is that? If you think that it is related only to your relationship then you are mistaken because it’s a very common issue in 2022, and still many women are struggling to prevent that. So if you have in mind “My boyfriend prefers his friends over me” Then you have come to the right place because we will tell you how you can change it, and what’s important to prevent it in the future.
There are many different ways to make your boyfriend spend more time with you than with his friends but they can be more complicated, also they are more effective, but if you don’t have much time then as a short answer we will tell you that a simple chat with your boyfriend about your issue can change it all, but if you think that’s not enough then stay with us and learn how you can make sure that next time he will spend his free time with you and not with friends.
Why he spends his time with friends rather than you?
It’s not so complicated if you have ever seen how is he behaving among friends is way different than he behaves when you are watching. A man without his women nearby is starting to act wilder, especially with his friends. He can joke about everything, be totally irresponsible, rude, and even gross.
All of the above are the signs that he can act like a kid with friends without any worries and responsibilities. Most of the men know that this can’t be maintained for a long so it’s often limited to evening adventures, because life isn’t that easy and we need that one single person to love, and we want to spend the rest of our lives with that person which in this case is his girlfriend.
Partying and being irresponsible is a short adventure because you need money to throw a party, and after that party, you need to recover, and the best place for it is your own house with your wife and kids. Life isn’t all about partying but it’s good to have fun sometimes, especially if you had a bad day at work, and you need to blow off some steam.
It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you, because he picked you over millions of other women out there and he wants to spend his life with you, but sometimes he just needs to have fun with friends. We can compare it to alcohol or any other similar stuff, it’s fun for a while and it can lower your stress level but it’s only a temporary solution.
How can I make him spend more time with me?
He spends a lot of time with his friends because he wants to have fun, so it means that if you will do something fun with him then he will spend that precious time with you. First, you need to learn what he likes to do at those friends’ meetings and then suggest to him that he can do it with you.