Love is a hard topic because in 2022 we still don’t fully understand it, but the knowledge we already have gathered about love we will present to you with our psychologist Catlin Brown, and she will help us to answer your questions and give some tips and what to expect about love. So if you ask yourself a question “Should I believe in love after burnout?” Then you are in a good place because we have all the answers.
Love can be very complicated but if you feel that love in your relationship has burnout, then there is still hope to get it back. About 20% of couples are able to bring back love after they thought that it faded away. The proof for that is that some couples are able to get back together after a sad breakup and even when many years have passed already. Often we don’t fully understand what love is and we confuse it for a simple crush that always fades away, but love is something more and we will show you some examples, so keep reading!
Was it only a crush or a true love?
Many younger people expect something else from a relationship than older people. When you are below 25 that means that you are most likely are looking for an adventure rather than a person to spend the rest of your life with, but if you are over 30 that means that you are looking for a strong and stable relationship. Note that those numbers are just the overall average and represent a big group of people, but your case can be a lot different.
Younger people tend to guide their love choices based on a short period of time, for example, they can ask someone to sleep together after a week or two. Older people like to get some information about their future partner, try to hang out more, and check if it’s right to pick that person before building a relationship.
Love can be easily mistaken with a spontaneous crush. Love starts to appear after you will spend some time together, which means that you truly do care about each other, and a single argument won’t ruin your relationship. Love is hard because it slowly grows as your time together passes. That charm you have felt in the beginning starts to fade away, and it’s replaced by something bigger and stronger.
Falling in love is easy, but building a successful relationship is way harder, and only about 5% of relationships will last over time and will lead both of you to many happy years of life together. How many boyfriends had your best friend get when you were younger? Even now in the USA, about 50% of marriages are ending up in divorce, that official statistic for 2020.
Can I get back with my ex, and love each other again?
If you are reading this article that means that you want to get back with your ex and try again to build a successful relationship. So you are on the right way to get back and we will give you some tips for it.
Some couples do realize what they have lost only after a breakup because strong emotions are crucial to appreciating what’s around them. Maybe your ex has similar feelings about your breakup?
The first, important thing is to realize if you truly want to get back with your ex and try again. Many people do regret that because they are making the same mistakes that they have done previously. So realizing what you previously have done and what mistakes did you make, that’s crucial if you want to make it better this time, and avoid a similar breakup after some time.
The second and harder part is to make sure that he will also want to get back together. Maybe you have some mutual friends who would tell you more about your ex and what he wants, but even if you don’t know what his reaction could be it will be worth trying it out!
in Conclusion – Should I believe in love after burnout?
You don’t need to believe because that’s the truth, about 20% of couples are able to bring back love to their lives, and if you have already breakup then there is still hope for you to love each other again. If you won’t make mistakes that you have previously have done, then this time you can build a way stronger relationship that will last way longer and maybe even forever!
Remember that you won’t be dealing with all of the problems alone because you will be together and that will make your problems easy to solve! If you want to know more about this topic then we will recommend our new article “I Treated My Ex Boyfriend Badly And I Want Him Back“. You will learn some tips and what to do if you feel this way.