Everyone has that special person that we can’t easily forget, and what if we have been together with that person as a couple? That means that he or she is now your ex, and that’s a common thing for couples to break up, but the feeling that has been between both of you should disappear over time. But what if they did not? Are you still in love with narcissist ex?
We will give you some solutions and tips on what you can do about your current situation but for now, you have to know something important. Think about your feelings, maybe you love your ex more than your current boyfriend or girlfriend? Then you should first decide who you would like to be with, then you should act based on your decision. If you are not sure what to do then stay with us and we will tell you what best you can do right now!
What can I do if I am still in love with narcissist ex?
It’s not an easy topic, because we don’t have many people to talk to about it. Your parents are not suited for this kind of stuff, your current boyfriend will be so angry if he even heard something about your ex, not speaking of being in love with your ex. Then maybe your friend could be able to help you?
You should really trust your friends to tell them all of that because they will get disappointed in you for all of that. So before telling them what you feel make sure that you are speaking with your most trusted friends, that won’t judge you straight away and will give some help. All cases are different and only you and your friends can solve your problems for sure.
Being a narcissist often attracts women and makes it impossible to forget him due to his charisma and personality, so don’t blame yourself because that’s what many girls tend to do.
Make up your mind and ask yourself if you are really to forget about him, or do you want to keep those feelings shut down at the bottom of your heart? If you want to forget then you are on the right track.
Your best option to forget about him is to swap your memories that are connected to him with something new. For example if you have been together in the aquapark and you have a lot of memories from it, then take some of your friends to that place and create new memories that are better and happier than those with your ex.
Maybe you have been together in a special place like Paris for example. The trip there with someone close to you can make you memorize something better, something worth your current status rather than those awful memories of your narcissist ex.
Your best option is to find someone like a new boyfriend or girlfriend (If you already don’t have one) and let them help you forget about your narcissistic ex. That way you will create new better memories that and over time you will slowly forget about those feelings for your ex.
Time will be your best medicine in this case. Think about anything incident that’s more than a few years old or even something you have learned in your primary school… it’s hard to visualize because your brain slowly forgets about things that are not important or continued anymore in your life.
That way your brain can only focus on keeping the memories that are important to you like for example if you are a musician, you won’t forget the basics that you have learned years ago. All that said you have to give yourself time to forget and if you want to speed up this process then make new similar memories more worthy of remembering than your memories with your narcissist ex.
Was your ex a narcissist?
Being a narcissist isn’t something bad, but it makes you stand out from the crowd, that’s why men who are a narcissist tend to attract more women to them.
Healthy narcissism lets us have the confidence and self-investment to make great things in our lives, due to our high self-esteem. Many narcissists maintain a sense of well-being with low levels of anxiety, loneliness, and depression.
If you feel like those sentences can describe your ex then yes you were in love with your narcissist ex.
In summary – Still in love with narcissist ex
Ask yourself if you are ready to forget about him and if you are then make some new memories to prevent you from remembering him in the future. Looking for a new boyfriend or girlfriend will speed up this process because you will both create some new great memories and finally forget him.
On the other hand, after some time you can think that you still love him that much that you would like to get back with him again if that’s what you are thinking then check out our article “I treated my ex boyfriend badly and I want him back” to learn what you can do right now to fix it!