The time has finally come and you asked your boyfriend about going out with your friends but he won’t let you go out with friends, and if that’s true in your case then be aware that this is a very common problem. You finally want to have some fun with your true friends that you have known for many years now, but what if you have a big problem and that is “Why my boyfriend won’t let me go out with friends?”.
Your boyfriend is the only person in the entire world that you should respect and listen to what he says, but what if you totally disagree with him, and the topic you’re arguing about is something very special to you like meetings with friends? There are many reasons why your boyfriend won’t let you go out with friends, some of them can seem to you stupid, but from his perspective, they can be reasonable:
- If you go want to go out with friends to crowded places like bars, then there will be a lot of men looking at you, and some of them can even approach you.trong>
- He doesn’t know your friends and can be worried that they will force you to do something stupid. 41 -->
- Maybe he doesn’t trust your friends.
- Sometimes the reason can be smaller than you think like financial issues, or he wants to go with you together. content_43 -->
We will tell you how you can check what is the reason for your case, and the ways for you to explain why it’s so important for you or why he simply cannot forbid you from doing that.
Is my boyfriend envious of me?
One of the reasons why he doesn’t want to let you go out with friends is that he may be simple envy. Your boyfriend can think about other guys that will be around you at the moment while having fun with friends, and even he can think what if they will try “asking you” or even worse “hitting on you” and that is also related to your friends and people who simply will be there walking by. In his mind that is really hard to accept.
In the worst-case scenario, he can think about all those muscular men that are there to flex their muscles and show you how better they are than he is. The women tend to like muscular men according to our last street interview, make sure to check it out.
Being envious is normal in human nature especially when it comes to the thing or people that we love, so envy is not always a bad thing, maybe he just cares about youand he doesn’t want to lose you. It’s important to not get angry at him because he can forbid you from going out with friends simply due to his love for you, which will have a negative impact on your relationship. He should not force his forbids on you but it can happen if the conversation will go in the wrong direction.
That’s why you should ask yourself “Are you sure that you’re not going to look around for some guys while having fun with friends?”. If you are sure about that then try to show it to him, and if you make him believe you then he should let you go out with friends. But how can you convince him? Let’s find out!
How can I convince him to let me go out with friends?
At first, you should convince him that you are going out with friends simply to be with them and chill out a bit, rather than looking at other guysng> out there. Make yourself 100% sure what you want to say, because otherwise it can be really bad for your relationship, and if you believe in yourself then you are halfway to success.
Now it’s time to think about ways that you can convince him and change his mind:lder-161" data-inserter-version="2">